Hello all. I am an 18 year old girl who lives in the United Kingdom!
So in 2012 I met a girl over Facebook called Megan and she has been my best internet friend ever since the day we met. We haven't gone a day without texting or Skyping, and we have been through many fights too, but we always make up...
But anyway, the past year I have been getting into "fights" (obviously online) with people Megan has known. The reason why? They have accused Megan of sending naughty photo's to them and doing naughty things on Skype webcam and audio! Megan admitted to sending naughty photo's to random guys but it was only for a few weeks and that she's grown out of that phase. That still didn't stop these guys from telling me the stories and accusing her of being a "hoe"... So nothing was said of it for about 5-6 months until Megan met this dude called Adrian and introduced him to me. It was like, love at first sight. I really had a crush on him and as silly as it sounds, it IS possible to gain feelings for somebody over the internet, that's what happened to me.
Want to know what happened next? Adrian tells me that he and Megan did naughty things together on webcam and audio. Baring in mind, he doesn't know that I had feelings for him but Megan DID. She denied it all and actually CRIED on Skype to me saying that he's lying. Of course, I fight with him and accuse him of being a liar so then he blocks me and he's out of my life. I told her that I am mad at her even though I don't believe him, but if she does that ever again and I have to end up defending her then I'm going to stop being her friend because I believe that dirty stuff you do over the internet is disgusting and trashy. She told me that she can trust her and that she'll never, ever do it again. I of course, believe her and we continue to be best friends.
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I think you're wrong. You shouldn't project your beliefs onto someone else. I'm not a whore but I have friends who sleep around like one. I'm not going to stop being friends with them because of that.
They are free to make their own choices and do their own thing. I am as well.
And if she lied, I would understand and tell her not to lie to me anymore. She could NOT be lying due to the people unable to give you proof about what she did.
She's free to make her own choices and live her life. You shouldn't impede on that. You don't HAVE to befriend her, but that's a dumb reason to end a good one in my opinion.0