He broke up with me but acted like he always missed me or wanted me back, hed texted me every once in a while. Always stalking my social media, and in person hed always kinda wait around for me and watch me and try in make sure i saw him and put himself in situations where id obviously notice him. I never really showed interest just sorta looked at him then would turn aroud because it truly hurt and it still does. Now he just blantenly ignores me to the point where its very obvious he always has his back turned and when he sees me walking towards him he will turn around and he's been talking to this girl that i really dont like and he knows it, it angers me but i dont want to show him that. He still looks over at me and stares at me but its nowhere as bad as it was. I dont think he likes her because his attention is mainly focused on me. And to be honest i kinda miss the attention, but what is his point and motive in all of this, im completely lost with him.
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It doesn't matter what his purpose is. What is your purpose? You need to be honest with yourself about what you want from him. . . and it's obvious that you want to reconcile.
Why do you want that? He broke up with you. There were significant problems and they will still exist if you reconcile. He has given you mixed signals since the break up and both of you have acted rather juvenile since you stopped dating. Why would round 2 be any different than round 1
Every relationship that you are in gives you opportunities to learn and mature and they help to prepare you for the next relationship. You need to learn what you can from the relationship you had with this guy, makes whatever changes you think you should make in your behavior, and then move on. Remaining fixated on this guy will be like jumping into a stagnant, algae infested pool to go swimming.0