Yesterday he told me I couldn't get gushy with him anymore or say cute things, and I lied and told him it doesn't mean anything anyway, that I love him as a friend and am not romantically interested in him at all.
Does this make me a bad person, for being so desperate to keep him in my life? Why doesn't he like me saying those gushy things (I miss you etc)?
Most Helpful Guy
That is why I do not like to play mind games.
Well now he have moved on, and so you should. Give your self a break, do not get emotional and try to reflect on what happened. Then make your decision of what is next.
Unless this new girl is bad news and she will hurt him, I do not think you have the right to interfere now.
Most Helpful Girl
You're not a bad person, at least not unless you plan on ruining his perfectly good relationship so you can revive the one you had with him. Wanting is not a bad thing :)
It's not my place to tell you what to do, but my advice would be to stay away from him, for you so that you can move on, and for him because by telling him you love him you're kind of disrespecting his relationship with his current girlfriend. Just try to put yourself in her shoes, would you want his ex coming on to him?
If you truly want to be with him, I'd say wait. Wait for his current relationship to play out and if things don't work out, tell him everything. Until then, wait.
Sorry hun I know it's hard feeling this way :(