This is a woman who gets hit on frequently and everywhere. I think she made a mistake by telling me that she was the one who always breaks it off with guys (with only one exception).
We have been somewhat cordial since the breakup since we share a mutal friend and are somewhat in the same circle. There are times I am tempted to try to reconcile. Maybe because she is beautiful, maybe because I feel guilty that she cried when I broke it off and she did reach out to me afterwards. I am not sure.
But, I am told that when a man breaks off with a woman, especially a beautiful one, it is much more of a blow to the ego than a woman does it to a man. My ex may be waiting for me to try to get her back and then hurt me to even the score.
Any thoughts? Especially from the ladies? Are y'all the ones who are used to doing the dumping? Is it a major shock if a guy dumps you
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im like this. I actually broke up with the guy and cut him off. he chased me for a little while but I kept ignoring him until he said fuck it. months later I felt bad because I missed him so much and realized that I was wrong for shutting him out when I was hurt and not giving him a chance and telling him how I felt. so I reached out to him and he ignored me. I was sooo hurt I've never felt this way before. I could literally have damn near any guy I want but I just wanted him. now I know to just be more open about my feelings and give a guy a chance. he wasn't an angel at all but I could have at least talked things over with him.. it took me 2 years to get over him. my friends kept telling me to just get over him but I can't believe he just ignored me like that0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE