Seeing a guy for five months... been sleeping with him just under two.
Finally figured out that he was using me. Despite thinking I'd met someone who was on my same level.
He doesn't appear to be a player, but is incredibly handsome and good at creating the illusion.
I still have him on facebook.
What is the best way to move on?
Last thing I did was send him a message explaining that I was let down but I opened my eyes to the ugly truth that he is. I was vicious but only because he hurt me despite knowing I'm not a cruel person. His reply was, "Whatever. can't be arsed to put up with this nonsense"
I'd never met anyone so in tune with me and someone I could respect so much, I was close to getting real feelings till I saw the light.
Do I have a future for love? Because I get approached every day by men, but they all just want casual sex. Men in the UK have changed. Goodbye to the gentlemen. Now they request a naked selfie before they even take you on a date.
This guy didn't ask that, he got to know me on an intellectual level and made me feel really good about myself before he got me.
I want to never have sex ever again. I'm usually good at casual sex and not clingy at all but this guy hit me hard despite it never even starting.
What advice do you have for me?
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Well I've been down that path before and here's how i got passed it all.
First thing you do is to remove that person from your contacts as well as your everyday life.
Next i would advice you join a club or sport team, this way your mind is focused on other things. This is also a great way to meet new people.
Another thing you could do is try online dating which some people may or may not favor but from what I've seen a lot of friends I've met have had succeses and are either married or engaged.
If none of these work, try approaching a different type of guy. What i mean wiyh this is simply avoid the behavior and personality of your previous relationship in order to move on and be happy.
Hope this helps :D0