Ino this sounds bad but as we lived together and used the same laptop he had left himself (clearly by accident) logged on facebook. So being the curious ex I had a little browse on his facebook and ended up in his inbox and to my surprise he had been messaging a girl basically begging her to come round to his new place when he moves out like WTF!! Excuse my French.
I then being a women went into detective mode and was able to log into his POF and found that he was telling all these girls they wear beautiful and everything else. Well half off them wear to put it politely not very attractive girls im not trying to say I am perfect but I don't get why men move on so fast and to such horrible looking women.
Also during all this time he was doing this he was telling me he still loved me and wanted to take me out on dates to see if we could rekindle our relationship. I don't get it its like did he ever love me because I know myself I am not emotionally ready to even try move on and probably won't be for a good few months.