Most Helpful Guy
The opposite of love is not hate, and the only thing it sounds like he hates is himself and the fact he no longer has control of the relationship.
Unless being emotionally abused and blamed for everything, because the other person is in denial and needs some professional counseling, I'm not sure what the point in reconciling with someone who possesses such an unhealthy mental state would do for you. I'm sure you have feelings for him, but your instinct had finally told you when you had had enough and got tired of getting your buttons pushed all the time.
I'm not sure he's capable of working anything out in a healthy way at this time, since he's acting like a young child. He'll continue to blame you for everything and wonder why nobody wants to pet him softly and give him a rectal thermometer of tender loving kindness while he's being an asshole. I mean, seriously? He wouldn't take you to the freaking doctor when you had a concussion or he resented doing it? Jesus Christ.
You did the right thing breaking up with him, and the next right thing to do is to start ignoring him and moving on to a healthier relationship with someone who can better handle their emotions.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think he still has feelings for you, otherwise he would not be so emotional saying that he hates u.. but u hurt him and he is mad at u right now. U should give it a time and try to talk to him again without touching the relationship subject, just as u would talk to a friend and see how he reacts1