My recent ex girlfriend who dumped me for about a month now, has started calling me again. She told me that her grandmother who I knew very well just found out she has breast cancer. This girl has done a lot of stuff to me which I can't stand, but I feel so bad with her grandmother situation. She also wants to stay friends with me. She says I'm her best friend, but wants nothing more. I still have feelings for this girl, but don't know if I should stay friends because it might hurt me in the long run. Every moment sad or happy I would be there for here while we were in the relationship, and I know I shouldn't really be there for her because we're not together anymore and she didn't want to be with me, at least that what all my friends are saying to me. I just feel bad about her grandmother and how serious this is? She I be friends, should I go see her, should I just talk over the phone... Idk?
Should I be friends with the ex, should I go see her, should I just talk over the phone... Idk?
What Girls Said 2
If you can't be in her life without falling deeper into love with her, you shouldn't contact her at all.2
It would be nice to be there for her at this time but honestly if you can't be with her without falling for your ex, then create space between the two1
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