There's a girl I know, she's expressed multiple times that if I don't give her unconditional love then she would kill herself, but then I read some of the things she says to her girlfriends, and she's saying that I couldn't live life without her, when I think it's the other way around. Should I address this with her, or should I just ignore her
I used to like her, but then I realized she was a fake, which I won't lie pissed me off at the time, so I called her out and "destroyed" her, "multiple times" now she might be suicidal and I'm kind of conflicted as to how I should handle it. She's not the type of person to feel guilty about anything, but now she's using it against me.
I need some insight on this.
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I had a ex boyfriend that used to pull the same thing on me. He didn't talk crap to his friends, but he made it almost impossible for me to end the relationship. It was always about how much he needed me, I was all he had, he couldn't live without me / didn't want to live without me. I dealt with it for a while because I never want to hurt anyone's feelings or cause problems... but it kept getting worse and I couldn't take it anymore. Eventually he became possessive and weird so I had to break up with his crazy acting ass. Needless to say he made it through!!! So, the only insight I can offer you is from what I went through and I would advise you to exit the stage quickly and quietly. If you have already "destroyed" her "multiple" times (as she claims), what's wrong with giving her the grand finale and ending it for good before you end up wrapped up in a co-dependent BS relationship forever!!!1