So it's been 3 months of no contact I leave in the fall.. we broke up things got messy but she had to end things. Her mom was telling her if she's moves out with me she would never talk to her again. She wouldn't have a free college ride anymore. We were sneaking around like only twice a month. Things led to miscommunication distrust and just a cluster fuck of a relationship. I was too busy to put in the effort to fix it and when I tried it was too late. I still do love her. She said hopefully we can try this again when we move out havw our shit together. Right before I leave should I reach out.. this will be another 3 to 4 months. So that will be 6 To 7 months on no contact in total. Or should I just say she dumped me.. don't bother. She left me with so many questionship and such weird behavior I couldn't figure out. My optimistic side tells me she was really torn and I should believe her when she said saying goodbye was the hardest thing she's ever done. That she did believe I didn't care and she did believe I was using her. My other side tells me she just lost interest and didn't really love me.
- Yeah it will give u a chance in the future and she will see you are moving on with your lifeVote A
- No she dumped you.. have respect for yourself.Vote B