Most Helpful Guy
That's the thing, everyone does realize how much it hurts... Everyone your age and older has been there, lived it, moved on... You will do the same... As you get older, you'll learn better ways to cope and move on faster... Expectations will become reasonable and you'll do great..
Most Helpful Girl
I know my ex isn't. He's an alcoholic with commitment issues that breaks his own heart about every three months. Instead of worrying about his amazing life, how about you focus on living an amazing life yourself? You will be so much happier that way. He doesn't deserve the head space.