I have been seeing an old flame recently. It started right after I broke up from a long term relationship. And she started going through a divorce. Anyway... We weren't calling it a relationship, no boyfriend girlfriend labels. We weren't even calling it exclusive. But the more time I spend with her the more I realise I want to be single as I never went through that stage after the last relationship. I don't think I can fool around and see other people and still see her too. I know I would feel really guilty about it and I know it would really hurt her. Should I explain all this stuff when I talk to her? I don't really know what I expect to find when I'm single. For all I know I might be miserable and loanly but I know I need to do it!!! What would you say to her?
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I think you should be completely honest with her & tell her what your feeling & what you want. she may not want the same things, and she may be angry, hurt but at least you told her the truth & didn't lie to her about what you want. being single is seriously something different and if you want to experience that , then I say go ahead! yes, you could be lonely or miserable but it could also be the best times of your life! you will never know unless you give it go. don't expect the unexpected, let everything come your way & take it with full force! oh & if she really cared about you, she would understand why you did this.0