thanks for your opinions everyone!
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If you need her to be happy, then you will never have her. Real happiness cannot come from anyone else but yourself. If you cannot be happy within yourself, then you cannot gain the courage and confidence to stand on your own. If you cannot take care of yourself, how can she trust you to be able to handle an equal share in a domestic partnership? You need to figure out what is missing inside of you, and balance yourself. Find inner peace and happiness. Only then will your inner light shine out the beacon of attraction for your perfect mate to find you.