Recently I've just been dumped. Its been a week now and i need some opinions on what his behaviour might be suggesting.
So he broke up with me because i was hurting him mentally because we fought quite often and he couldn't deal with it, he was already suicidal and felt he was going to hurt himself so he left.
about 3/4 days after that he commented "have anything you want to say before i block your last means of contact" and as i hadn't seen that message in time he replied with "I'm not talking to you ever again and we are never getting back together"
fast forward 2 or so days, i called him practically begging to get back together, he said he loved me but he needed to do this for his himself and blocked my number.
After that i adopted the 'no contact' rule and will continue to stick to it.
today (5 days after breakup) he messaged telling me he unblocked me on Facebook, i didn't reply and then he got angry again saying he won't talk to me ever again and I've screwed up my chance of being with him.
i think he wants me back he just doesn't know how to say it, or maybe he doesn't. I really hope you can give me your opinions
Thanks guys :) sorry its long, but I'm very appreciative of your time.
- Will get back together/just going through a rough spotVote A
- No chance of ever getting back togetherVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I think this is over. It sucks that it had to go this way with all the blocking, but it sems this won't change and you should move on.
That time when he unblocked you on facebook was probably because he was doubting his decision of breaking up. This doesn't mean he was was wrong for breaking up in the first place, but he just started to miss you. When you didn't reply, he got control of his feelings again and got back to blocking you.
Now let me be frank, this was not a missed opportunity of getting back together with hm. Even if you did reply and you started talking again, it would not be the same as it was before the breakup. After a while, he would realize why he broke up again and all this would repeat.
As some other said, stop with this and move on. it is for the best.0