She would act all distant like everything was fine.. nudging me off then all of a sudden well maybe if you acted like you care!! Then the shit just spirals out of control. I'll admit I'm bad and have little compassion but really cmon ladies... how would you think this benefits you. Why do you do it?
Most Helpful Girl
1) Not all of us do. Stop generalizing.
2) If someone is doing that to you, tell them to stop being hypocritical. It is asinine for someone to expect you to give them all your attention and when you abide by their wishes (for you to leave them alone), they lash out at you.
3) Again, not all women do it. I don't do it. Some women want a guy to dote over her even when she told him not to. It could be mood swings. Or she could feel that the guy was pretending to be invested and simply got tired of her so didn't even try to check up on her when he left her alone.0
Most Helpful Guy
Women expect that we are as intuitive as they are...
No matter how often we try and explain that we cannot read between the lines because there are no lines, they still think that we can change...
Can we? Not to the point that we would have to in order to satisfy most.
It's not their fault either.. They're intuitive and empathetic... If they can relate to and read us, they assume that we can do the same with them...
Eh, what are you gonna do? ... It is what it is.. Haha!0