She would act all distant like everything was fine.. nudging me off then all of a sudden well maybe if you acted like you care!! Then the shit just spirals out of control. I'll admit I'm bad and have little compassion but really cmon ladies... how would you think this benefits you. Why do you do it?
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1) Not all of us do. Stop generalizing.
2) If someone is doing that to you, tell them to stop being hypocritical. It is asinine for someone to expect you to give them all your attention and when you abide by their wishes (for you to leave them alone), they lash out at you.
3) Again, not all women do it. I don't do it. Some women want a guy to dote over her even when she told him not to. It could be mood swings. Or she could feel that the guy was pretending to be invested and simply got tired of her so didn't even try to check up on her when he left her alone.0