Basically me and this guy dated since October and just broke up (his decision) a week ago. He said he doesn't love me anymore and can't be what I "need" right now. But he said he can't throw me out of his life because that would hurt too much and wants to stay friends. But apparently he still likes me, just doesn't want to be with me till he "loves me again". I tried contacting him for my stuff. He ignored me. He then texted hey the other day. I responded hey back and he never contacted me. I posted a few pictures on Instagram. He liked them all. And he tried snap chatting me the most irrelevant video that I haven't responded too. Basically I'm refusing to contact him. Why is he acting so confusing? Also I caught him talkin to another girl through text like a month ago.
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Many of today's toms are sporadic and unpredictable and grow cold duck feet whenever feeling scared or cornered into getting into the Big "C" which is----Commitment. This duck is no exception to my golden goose rule.
He has so much as told you here, dear, that he doesn't want to be in a Real Relationship nor hooked at the hip and he will contact you whenever it suites his fancy. He knows you will wait around for him because you have more or less agreed to his terms of 'Stay friends,' and now, he may even feel he can call the shots of having as Friends with benefits factor relationship with you whenever he feels it may be possible.
If he was talking to 'Another girl through text a month ago,' I am betting he is still Texting and sexting whoever he feels like it and bottom line is... he is not ready or raring for any relationship.
He is not 'So confusing,' sweetie... just so typical of today's toms.
Good luck. xx0