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Many of today's toms are sporadic and unpredictable and grow cold duck feet whenever feeling scared or cornered into getting into the Big "C" which is----Commitment. This duck is no exception to my golden goose rule.
He has so much as told you here, dear, that he doesn't want to be in a Real Relationship nor hooked at the hip and he will contact you whenever it suites his fancy. He knows you will wait around for him because you have more or less agreed to his terms of 'Stay friends,' and now, he may even feel he can call the shots of having as Friends with benefits factor relationship with you whenever he feels it may be possible.
If he was talking to 'Another girl through text a month ago,' I am betting he is still Texting and sexting whoever he feels like it and bottom line is... he is not ready or raring for any relationship.
He is not 'So confusing,' sweetie... just so typical of today's toms.
Good luck. xx