We have a really up and down relationship and he disappears quite often I could get hold of him if I wanted but it's always me chasing him and I really don't want to be like this forever how can I change the way he acts, he doesn't respect me at all and I feel like he's always putting me down, and doesn't care about anything but himself, he hasn't even rang/txt to see if our baby is ok..
Most Helpful Guy
You can't squeeze blood from a stone.
You probably can't change the way he acts. If something hasn't clicked inside him once he had a child, then it's probably never going to. He sounds like he's not worth your time and effort. I'd suggest forgetting about him.0
Most Helpful Girl
Just wait for him to come back.0