My moms husband has cheated 3 times, he was caught on an adult website talking to other women, my mom and him made a promise that if he ever did it again they would get divorced... Now I don't think it's a good idea, he's got so many problems, he's unfaithful, he's a dick to me, he almost hit me once, and I'm pretty sure he hates me. I don't want him to come back because I hate him, he's hurt my mom so many times and I hate it, I hate when my mom is upset, I hate when she's mad or sad. I really just want her to be happy... What do you guys think? Would you bring your cheating ex boyfriend/ husband/ girlfriend/ wife back into your life?
Most Helpful Guy
If he cheated just once, MAYBE he deserves a second chance.
THREE times together with all the other stuff you mentioned is just too much. I understand why your mom would want him back (breaking up/divorcing someone you have been together with for a long time hurts like hell, even if they cheated), but this goes way too far.
Be careful in the way you tell her your opinion. It is her decision in the end, but you can say that you have a very bad feeling about it and would rather not have him in the house anymore.
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Most Helpful Girl
She sounds like she has battered woman syndrome. Your mother's husband is toxic and she's an idiot for taking him back after he took not one but three other women into their bed.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE