My moms husband has cheated 3 times, he was caught on an adult website talking to other women, my mom and him made a promise that if he ever did it again they would get divorced... Now I don't think it's a good idea, he's got so many problems, he's unfaithful, he's a dick to me, he almost hit me once, and I'm pretty sure he hates me. I don't want him to come back because I hate him, he's hurt my mom so many times and I hate it, I hate when my mom is upset, I hate when she's mad or sad. I really just want her to be happy... What do you guys think? Would you bring your cheating ex boyfriend/ husband/ girlfriend/ wife back into your life?
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Well it's hard to say. Talking to other women is not cheating to begin with and that's that. On the fact that he is mean to you I don't know. My stepdaughter sometimes hates my guts but I could care less about it. If she is acting up I'll do something about it no matter what she things of me. I've heard that I'm mean or don't care about her and that I don't know anything but it's all normal teen stuff. I've seen a lot of crying screaming and whatever else teens resort to after I take away her smart gadgets but if she doesn't deserve them she would loose em for a time. So you would have to put some prospective out here in order for us to figure out why you hate him. Many teens hate their parents but teen's brain is not fully developed and is highly irrational. On the part of wanting your mom to be happy all kids want that but than again context is needed. My wife is not always happy with me but at times she just has irrational expectations of me so I probably look bad in my stepdaughters eyes to. So if we consider that you are 15 year old girl not much advice could be given. I don't know what's in your head and I don't know what is your moms opinion on the mater. Best for you I think is to leave adults to sort things out between themselves and not worry to much about it.