I'm fully aware that our relationship was kind of unhealthy, we wanted different things, and neither of us was actually what the other was looking for. So why isn't that making moving on easier? It's still so hard and im still so tempted to call him and ask him to meet me somewhere to just talk and see him and hear his voice.
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Because you're hurt, that's why.
You can't expect emotions to just disappear straight after the break, let alone 3 weeks down the line.
A rule of thumb is it takes half the time you were together to get over them. In all honesty that's hogwash. It took me 4-5 months to get over a girl I loved for 5 years, 3-4 months to get over a girl I had been with for 3 years and then 4-5 months for a girl I was with for only a month!
It depends on many factors including the length of the relationship... but more specifically, how hooked up you were on them.0