I've been no-contact with my ex for almost 10 months. I feel like breaking it and talking to him now. How do I break it while still sounding casual?
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You need something more than a dull "Hey how's it going?" text... they're awful.
You want to bring up something positive from your past relationship.
I would recommend something along these lines:
"Hey, you remember that restaurant we got that super tasty chicken from? The peri-peri one? Which exit is it off the motorway?"
Bare in mind you have to alter it to suit you and your ex... but these are better texts.
What you expecting from a "Hey how are you?" kind of text when you haven't spoken for 10 months? "I'm OK" ... where does it go after that?1