So this may sound weird but i finally got to date the guy i had a cursh on since i was 4 and he had a thing for me. we found each other again online and started talking then we started dating. i honeslty did not know i could fall so hard and fast for someone. He told me that he was never going to leave and hed alwasy be there and i beilived him so then i let a kiss go to far but i don't regert it. i just wish i didn't fall for it.. we broke up and he says he still really really likes me and cares about me but timings not right now. he's going off to school in a couple of months and joining the Army as well, i just miss him like hell and its only been 4 days and i miss him like hell. and he posts things on facebook that makes me think he misses me as much as i miss him. and the really sad part is im letting this take control over me becasue i have not really eaten since this happen. but i feel like i need him in my life beacuse i just got him back and know he's gone again and i can't handel losing him.
Most Helpful Guy
After a while you will be able to live with the hurt and pain.2
Most Helpful Girl
Time and keeping yourself distracted are the only things that'll really help, especially with your first 'real' heartbreak. Try to not look at it as that though. Not a heartbreak but a learning experience.
I know him being your first to have sex with makes it harder as well. However, you in reality lost nothing to him. Nothing more than the memory that he was your first. Do know that there'll be more guys you have sex with later in the future, so this will lose it's significance in comparison. I say that having lost my first 'serious' boyfriend as well as first guy I had sex with by him cheating on him a week after we had sex. I was a shell of my former self for over a year after that.
It'll get better. :)0