So my ex broke up with me almost two weeks ago, and she calls me like at 4am out of the blue just to tell me to text her. So we talk and stuff and it just sounds like she is bragging saying oh i'm so happy now reconnecting with my old friends. Then goes on to show me how some guy is flirting with her saying she's really hot and stuff and then calls him a f**k boy. So assuming up until the point she shows me this I assume she was flirting with him. Either way why is she showing me this? I have been trying not to talk to her trying to get over her even though I still love her and can't. We text every couple days not everyday and she almost always starts the conversation. So anyways then I try and ask her out and she says i'm ok for now. As in maybe one day. Like why is she doing this to me? Is she trying to make me jealous or what does she still like me? She at one point said we both need to learn to be happy on our own. Because she said I depended on her for happiness too much. Is this code for something else?
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She's just stringing you along for attention1