Me and my ex have been on and off for like three years we were friends for like two and really invested in each other she was madly in love with me and eventually I too fell in love, we seriously dated for about 5 months and eventually she cheated on me and I forgave her and took her back after she came crawling and crying back to me, then we got back together for awhile again and she broke up with me once again and left me for the guy she first cheated on me with... two-3months past by and she came
crawling back once more and it took everything for me to forgive her and take her back we were friends for awhile and then decided to become a thing again.. well now she's broken up with me again and at first told me it was a break and I needed the summer to get my act right but something was up and come to find out a week later she's dating the same guy again... she said she's a carefree person and wants to be with another carefree person and that in the future maybe she'll want something different and if we both want it we can try again but for now she's doing what makes her happy and is sorry that it doesn't include me at the moment... we've decided to stay friends in all of this but I don't understand what do I lack that he has? Is she rebounding again to what's comfortable for her? She's not even coping with this she's not really trying to find herself but instead just sleeping with someone again so fast.
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You sound too nice... that is why this keeps happening. I don't quite understand how you lack so much self respect that you still want this woman, who has cheated on you multiple times, and why you were so weak to her tears.
She is obviously a thrill and adrenaline junky, a drama lover and someone that you couldn't satisfy in these regards.
I am not trying to make you feel worse but I am trying to make you understand you would be better off with someone else that is trustworthy and not stringing you along until a bad boy comes to hump and dump her before she returns to you, the ever waiting good boy.0
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