Is it better to keep in contact or not?
What Guys Said 1
I feel it's best to keep your distance cuz when you want something, seeing it will just temp you more and play mind games on you. It makes you contrmplate on how to get what you desire by deny means necessary. Like someone giving you keys to a brand new BMW or something and saying it's yours than they take the keys back. Or someone handing you a grocery bag of hundred dollar bills and taking it back. Sooner or later your going to just run off with the keys or money lol0
What Girls Said 3
Keep in contact. The no contact is good only for moving on faster, for both sides, doesn't who dumped who. If you cut the contact the passion and everything you two had will fade away faster, for both of you. If you want that, then definitely no contact. But if you want him back and you believe those issues could be fixed, then stay in touch. BUT do not initiate hanging out. Let it go naturally. if he dumped you, be polite and happy when he calls you or texts you. Keep it cool and keep being yourself. Don't talk about relationship or issues or emotions, only if he starts. Don't ask him what he's doing, you can ask him to do something together from time to time, without pressure, and don't get mad or judge him if he refuses. In the meantime just live your life and keep improving, try being happy - guy's love happy independent girls. But I got to warn you - this is a long run in getting him back and you feel pathetic many times. He might changes his mind and he might not, so don't expect anything. Also, don't avoid better opportunities in the meantime, there are better guys out there.0
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