My ex girlfriend broke up with me because she "fell out of love," she said it happened over time and she had feelings with one of her friends at the same time she started to fall out of love. After we broke up only about 2 weeks later they started dating. I saw her and she told me everything. I stopped talking I her for like 2 weeks and I called her, we were together for 6 years hip to hip. Not a single day we didn't at least talk. Perfect relationship. When I talked to her she said, in not in a relationship, I asked why. She said because I miss you too much, in not ready for a relationship and I don't want to be in one. I asked her, can we see each other then, or maybe even just talk? She said no its too soon, and that if we were to talk and stuff we'd get back together and it wouldn't be good. She then said at one point that she would like to talk casually one day. 2 weeks after that conversation I found out she slept over that guys she likes house. I guess what im asking is if she fell out of love, or wants to test her feelings? It's been two months now since we broke up, I keep freakin contacting her trying to rationalize her feelings, I need to stop, and let her miss me too right? Then maybe throw her a text in like a month casually?
Girls, A question regarding falling out of love?
What Girls Said 1
No you shouldn't text her in a month. In fact you shouldn't text her ever till the day she comes back to you. She dumped you. She decided she doesn't want you. You crawling back to her and giving her attention all the time is basically you rewarding her for not wanting to be with you. The one who does the dumping is the one who has the responsibility of going back to their ex. NOT the other way around. You're only doing damage by contacting her and in fact you run the risk of her losing respect for you because she'll think you don't have a life outside of her. So yes, you need to stop and make her miss you but that will require a lot of space and no contacting her first.
She will NOT fall back in love with you because you keep texting her. The only way her feelings can be ignited is if she decides to do this herself. It's a decision she will have to make, not you.0
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