my boyfriend of 5 months wants to take a break from the relationship to chill out ... we have been on a break for two weeks now and he has called me a few times during the two weeks to see how I am etc etc ( I haven't called him or text him once ) he says he still has feelings for me etc etc... why do you think he wanted to take a break and what do you think he is feeling and thinking?
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There could be many reasons. if he wasn't really straight up about the reason for the 'break', then it should be his responsibility to let you know, and your right to know. Because you know, its not a good thing to have a girl worry, right? lol
But like I said, there could be many reasons. Some possible reasons. Maybe he's weary of your relentless love for him. lol. Or maybe he feels like the relationship is moving too fast for him and needs to slow down. Or maybe he just needs some time to work on other priorities in his life, such as school, career, family, personal issues, etc. Or maybe he's just plain ol' thinking. Thinking and re-evaluating the relationship and figuring out what he really wants in a relationship. Most of these reasons could be considered 'constructive' towards a relationship.
But if worst comes to worst, it maybe he's losing interest and is trying to let you off 'gently' without the huge disputes, etc. However which we all know leads to more emotional anguish.. so if he's really having you worried, then ask him to be honest with you and open up to you.
I hope this helps. Just try not to worry or overthink about it. I've seen a lot girls do that. It's not a healthy mind frame. You should continue to live your life in all aspects, whether or not you're in a relationship or not. :)0