I was sorta seeing this girl last summer but we were not "official" or intimate, we were everything but... anyway she had started to ignore me and then finally asked that I stop contacting her end of November or early December, I never really found out why.. so the last few months I have gone on a dates with a number of different girls and have thought a few of them went really well, but haven't turned into anything serious. my mind keeps going back to that girl from last summer, I really miss her!! but number 1 I am afraid to reach out to her because she asked me to stop contacting her. number 2 I am afraid of trying to be friends or date only to have her start ignoring me again after a few months..
anyone currently in that situation or been in that situation have any advice for me?
- call herVote A
- text herVote B
- add her back on facebookVote C
- keep dating other girls and trying to forget about this oneVote D
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I speak from experience when I advise you to move on. I dated my ex for almost two years on and off and she ended it on my bday in 2013. I was in love and had NEVER been more in love, committed, etc with anyone as much as I was with/to her and I spent the last 2 & 1/2 years trying to get her back to no avail. I've always been the strong, consistent, steady guy and she/this tore me apart. I lost my career, developed addictions, became antisocial, depressed, etc as a result of her/the situation. I can appreciate your desires and hurt but, you need to move on. Do NOT waste another single solitary second on her for your own good. If at some point she decides she wants you back later you can cross or burn that bridge when you get there AND you'll be a better version of yourself if it happens...
Just my.02... hope this helps and God bless1