Me and My girlfriend have been fighting a lot and it's getting to the point were I can't take it and she says if i want to end it do it now over text but to me thats just to mean to do. What should i do? break up over text and feel like a asshole about it or break up in person ps it would take me 4 hours to go and say that its over. Please HELP!! Also the only reson why im breaking up with her is cause its to much stress on me and im trying to work out my own stuff out at the same time and my doctor said that im under to much stress for a 20 year old man
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Honestly... If you break up in person OR over the phone it's going to be a PAINFUL experience. You might see her cry, you might see her get angry, you both may fight again.. OR you both may apologize and try to work things out.. It can go LOTS of ways... Obviously the best way to break up is in person.. But even in person its going to HURT. there's no easy way to break up sorry to break it to you :(
But maybe when you break up you should convince her that breaking up is good.. If you do it in person say "You and I know this isn't working out we fight all the time.. I think it would be best for us to date new people."
I don't know.. You could wait for her to break up with you.. but ya just do the right thing.. Don't be a douchebag... Break up the correct way :)1