My girlfriend tends to stand me up quiet often, I'd say about 50% of the time. If we decide to go to the movies, dinner, a party then she will go, but if we just decide to stay in my apartment then she doesn't go. She justifies the situation by saying, "It's not like I never go to your apartment." Which is true, she does go but only to prevent me from getting angry. I feel like she's supposed to stick to our plans and go to my apartment because she wants to, not becuase she's trying to avoid conflict.
She mostly ditches me to go to her family gatherings. Last night we made plans that she'd come to my apartment, this afternoon she texts me that she's going to a party with her friend. I feel like sh'es not takin things seriously. Am I supposed to be mad and end things or just take a deep breath and try to relax?
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Well if you guys hang out a lot, you shouldn't be upset that she goes to family things and goes out with friends. If you rarely see each other I get why you're upset though and if that's the case, it sounds like you're putting in way more effort than she is which isn't fair to you.0