So I told her basically we are breaking up as friends and that I will no longer be contacting her. She got upset with this saying it will make things much harder just to pretend like we aren't even frineds etc. So to make her feel better I told her "we are still friends, but I will no longer be contacting you. If for some reason you feel like you want to contact me its not like I will ignore you" she felt better feeling like at some point she could contact me again.
I don't like it because it gives a hopeless situation the appearance of hope in the future. SO do I just delete her out of my life and pretend she does not exist? delete of Facebook, instagram, snapchat, phone number. We were good friends before but I really do no see a point in keeping contact info of someone who will not contact or hangout and who you definitely don't want to know about new boyfriends etc.