I know it's only 3 months of dating with this guy. He said things that made me believe he was a good boyfriend, we were official. I was loyal to him. But when things ended for both of us, he gave up and didn't even try to pick up the pieces. Instead, in less than a week, he was already with a new girl! Question is: was he cheating on me this whole time? No one picks up a girl THAT quick in less than a week and invite her over to your place? In about 2 weeks she started posting pictures of them hanging out together and referred to him as "Bae"
wow. I am so mind blown.
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Silkteddy, I am telling you, this guy was not cheating on you, you were not a rebound. Sorry but you are making this all up, its all in your head. You have absolutely no evidence he was cheating on you.
Its quiet simple, he might of known this girl a while he is was in a relationship with you, and decide to ask her out, after the relationship ended with you. He could of easily pick her up at a club, a dating site.
Just cause he has moved so quickly and got himself another women, doesn't mean anything. It is his life, if he wishes to pursue another relationship with someone else, its none of your business. But it doesn't mean he is doing it to hurt you. He is moving on with his life, stop making it about you, and he doing everything to hurt you. Sorry but you are really being paranoid. Let it go.
Just accept you relationship with him ended, and you ended, with a decision you regretted. You said wanted to be single, then you wanted him back, and he didn't take your offer again. You hurt him, by ending it with him. He didn't get back with you, he didn't want you to hurt him again.
Stop blaming him, the relationship ended because of you. He is not some barbie doll, you can just do what you like with him. You can't go round just deciding when to be in a relationship, and when its not, When go doing that to people, sometimes people are not give you a second chance, this is world is very unforgiving place,
Just leave the guy alone, and stop looking at his facebook page, and his new girlfriend. Its none of your business, I suggest you find better things to with your time.0