My ex has added me on Instagram. After 3 1/2 years of dating, he continued to cheat on me nd I finally broke it off for good.. We had no communication at all for 11 months, and out of the blue I get an Instagram request from him..(my Instagram is private) I'm just curious to why he would do this? And he's single.. I thought he could be doing it to be nosy, but his family follows me and I'm sure he could ask them to see my stuff.. He was with a couple girls after me but none lasted. I don't know if I should accept just so he could see me doing better off, but not add him back.. Or deny?
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Just because two people Break up doesn't mean they can't ad don't Make up and that it's Goodbye, my love forever. And with an "EX" who still Marks his X in hi sown softie spot, there is usually motive in mind when it might come time when He------Out of the blue get an Instagram request from him.
In your case here, dear, he is Obviously Missing the Kissing and the history you both used to share and the cozy comfort you and he had together. You know his past track record and many times over, as you know, a zebra will not change his stripes... you gave him that chance and he blew it.
I believe he probably wants to get up with you and not be hooked at the hip but probably do a Friends with benefits factor with you. He may want you part of his life without all the strife and if he gets you to play along, this may be what song he will be serenading you now.
Don't be so quick to wear your heart on your sleeve. You have move don, you have a new life of your own, so really... why get those sleeping dogs barking up the wrong tree again.
It's your call, your choice but as they say... Why fix what doesn't need to be fixed?
Good luck. xx0