He basically says I need time to get over my romantic feelings for him, but knows I am going through a lot in my life right now and wants to help me through it in about a month or so. Says he cares very much for me but can not be here with me during this time while I figure out what it is I need to. I miss him so much but agreed to his feelings. I will wait for him to reach out first. Then on the night of our break up, he contradicted himself and mentioned a party we both have tickets to go to next week, saying we should go together. I don't know what to do! I have been working on myself every day and trying to remain positive. I signed up for some stress management classes so that I can get help learn the tools to not take my stresses out on others. He is aware of this as well. He also told me he is not interested in dating anyone else, and won't be for a long time, but that I still need to not wait for him hoping we will get back together when we see each other again. Is there a chance that if I can in fact make big changes in my behavior that he will come back around? Im thinking to just date someone new and let him see. He knew I was working on changing myself to help us both as best as I could and he still left me.
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Girl, he would date someone if he had found one so don't hang on it. You just focus on yourself and get a guy even though you don't feel like doing it. Go out hang out have fun. Don't pursue. He ended it unilaterally so it should be his idea to rekindle things. Trust me there are so many pleaser guys (more than 90% in the world) those would cave in for you and help you evaporate those hard feelings. Don't ever text him for ANYTHING. You do what you do and get better and learn to live without him. THIS is the best thing you can do for either getting him back or getting someone better which is WIN or WIN situation. Promise me that you don't go with your Hollywood lovestory-filled heart and do some nonsense romantic shit. Good luck.0
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