Okay so me and my ex broke up almost 3 weeks ago. He called me last night and texted me begging me to see him. I said no, and this morning he apologized because he was drunk and didn't mean to contact me.
tonight we spoke on the phone for two hours, and I told him I was talking to another guy and am in a relationship with him (I lied). He said he was happy for me, and that he is moving on. I continued to tell him that talking to him has made me realize how much I still loved him and I opened up to him. He told me he still had feelings but that he didn't want to get back together. I asked if he loved me and last night he told me he did but tonight he told me he didn't know what to say. I really want him back, but I don't know how to get through to him. I asked him to think about it and he said he would. But then he proceeded to tell me that he didn't want me to wait for him or have hopes.
Im so confused. How do I get him back? 30 day no contact?
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It seems like you're both playing games here! I think it's best to give him space. Once you responded to his texts/calls it made him comfortable/realize you still care. He's thinking you're going to text him to see if he's thought about it and when he doesn't hear from you he'll wonder what you're doing and most likely text you! Wait it out a bit and see what happens0