Most Helpful Girl
You should know some girls are pretty sensitive when it comes to this, and they tend to over think which is unhealthy. I know how that feels. If my boyfriend (IF I had one xD we broke up the other day) did this I'd feel really really bad. Why would he want to see another girl? Is he getting bored with me? Such questions just pop in my head. It's sad when another girl seems to catch his interest. And even if you say you weren't cheating, it still seems (I repeat, it still SEEMS) like it because you don't need to have sex or kiss another girl to cheat. Once you're hiding something from your girlfriend (you said you got "caught" so obviously you were stalking her friend in secret), then you're already there.
I guess she just felt bad that you had to do it without her consent. Or maybe she just doesn't want you seeing other girls. Or she's afraid because some relationships start with friendship, I don't know.
If you truly love her and don't want to hurt her, if ever you get back together don't do this again. I don't mean you shouldn't hang out with friends, but whatever your plans are, you should tell her so there wouldn't be misinterpretations. No secrets.
But I don't really know how you could win her back. Maybe talk it out? Or if this doesn't work, maybe you could just let time heal wounds and win back her trust before you could win her back.
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Most Helpful Guy
Asking girl to hangout was a bit much - Work on earning her trust back and see how it goes from there.