Most Helpful Girl
You should never feel like you've lost who you are, you're way too young to be thinking like that boy. It must be hard, I understand. You had that person always there and you did many things together and all of a sudden that all stops. Look at it this way, you can make the best of it and find yourself seeing as you're only 22 and it's not the end of the world. Having someone doesn't make you who you are. So, take it slow and don't over think it (I know its hard not to) but trust me, things will get better just give yourself a chance.
Most Helpful Guy
Not completely, but felt sort of aimless and lost after things ended with my SO of over ten years. You're so used to having that other person around as part of your life that you forget not having them there, not taking them into account when you do things; stuff like that.