Side note: my gut does tell me she is genuine
Most Helpful Girl
"She said he was just a dick and thought bringing me up more would make him go away"
Such a bunch of bullshit. Why would she talk badly about you? You would do the complete opposite. You would praise your boyfriend for the other one to understand that you would never leave your boyfriend.
I wouldn't even to begin with talking to a man whos sending me pictures of his junk while I'm with someone and we're exclusive.
She's not genuine. She's manipulating you when saying "if she had anything to hide she would leave her phone in front of me and let me know her passcode".1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, why does your gut tell you she's genuine? Just curious. How long has she carried on with this guy? I mean, if it were me, I wouldn't hold my breath that she just up and walked away from an ex. Clearly, if being with you in a new relationship, wasn't a good enough reason to stop talking to him, than I doubt your words will influence her. Now, I could be wrong, and for your sake, hope I am, but if it were me, she wouldn't haven't gotten past the talking shit about me to a former lover. That for me, says all I need to know.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE