So my new girlfriend about 2 months was still flirting with some guy recently right after we started dating. Him sending her picsof his junk in his boxers. Fast forward a week or two, we were on vacation weekend together and I saw some texts on her phone of her talking bad about me to him saying I was jealous and probably saw her texting him. He was also asking her about what sexual stuff we had done.. I was livid as hell and ready to leave her ass then.. i confronted her and laid it to her ass she promised never to happen again and he won't be an issue. I told her I never wanted her talking to him again and she seemed genuinely upset that the whole situation had taken place. She said he was just a dick and thought bringing me up more would make him go away. She also told me if she had anything to hide she would leave her phone in front of me and let me know her passcode. That made me feel a little better. Im pretty sure the guy is a ex boyfriend too but im not sure. Anyways she's been on a 3 week long vacation with her family so I haven't seen her since our talk and everything has been great in talk and text since then, we talk all day every day basically and she seems all in... However the million dollar question is if she's still communicating with this guy when i see her this weekend should I cut her off then or find out what the hell is the deal and confront her on it again?
Side note: my gut does tell me she is genuine
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My One question to you here, dear is: Is she alone on this '3 week vacation' or is someone keeping her company where she can't even text you a "Hello?"
She sounds to me as though she hasn't gotten over her blast from the past if she was and still May be talking and texting to the skeleton in the closet that has you so rattled. She seems to want her cake and eat it Two, if I may say so, and even with her now as I write this, even though everything may have been Hunky Dorey before her holiday, I find her behavior rude and crude with her not so much as sending you a message. She appears to want to be her own woman, want her freedom and independence and yes, without trying to point fingers, He may still be in the not so rosy picture.
Have another little chit chat with her when you see her again, my friend. Ask her why you have not heard from her, and if she shows all the sure signs of hymning and hawing in any way, even with proof she may still be gushing with this ghost, time to boot her out the door, nothing more in store.
It's nice you are so trusting but my gut is telling me she is still hooked on him.
Good luck. xx0