Just broke up, feeling terrible. Would like to know I'm not alone =P
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I went through what I thought was a pretty rough break up for months ago. Me and my ex of 18 months were off on holiday together and she was staying at my place like we had planned. She was ok at first but then somthing was up with her for a day or two prior to it happening. Then the holiday ended and I dropped her off at her flat, kissed goodnight and I thought nothing of it. The next day I got a phone call of her saying its over and she ended it with no explanation, just she's realised she is unhapy and its over. 10min phone call. That's the last time I saw her the day before when we woke up in bed together at my place.
Then the next weekend she is sleeping with someone else, just casual sex.
I was so hurt by her, someone I thought I knew, in the space of a week we were off on holiday together to her sleeping with someone else. I went into total shock, I didn't see the breakup coming, id barely come to terms with that, and to hear she was sleeping with someone else I felt sick to the stomach. She just told me to get over it and she was as happy as she had ever been.
Looking back I think I went into shock for a while. I couldn't come to terms with how quick it all happened and how horrible she was to me, it was like she was a differenet person than the girl I lived with. I couldn't understand how she could have so little regard for my feelings, it was like we never happened, almost surreal. She just turned on me literally overnight and her feelings changed. I`t felt like I lived a lie for the last 2 years. I couldn't comprehend how someone could treat me like that and lose all memory / feelings / kindness in 1 week. ¬She hurt me so much, but what hurt the most was how she just didn't care and she knew she was doing it, I just couldn't understand why she would0