Me and my ex were best friends for so long, then we finally dated. we broke up (my fault) and he wanted me in his life still but I couldnt handle the fact that he was talking to other girls and didn't want me back, so i had to cut him off for my own health, and his. Yesterday I tried to contact him and he answered he phone and said "I don't want you in my life ever again or to talk to you ever again. I promised myself I wouldn't." and then hung up. I told him I'm in a better place now and can talk, but he doesn't care he said. I honestly still see him in my future and it kills me he won't even try to have a conversation with me..
How likely do you think it is that he'll contact me again? I've been messaging him on social media and calling him but nothing works. Is he still hurt? I just dont get why we can't even talk. Please help.
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You should leave him alone for a while. Contacting him will only push him farther away. I am in the same boat as you with my ex, I love her and I still want to marry her even though I know that that will never happen ( we dated for almost 2 years and she always wore my promise ring on her ring finger). If it is meant to be you will cross paths again in the future but you cannot change his mind at the moment. He is obviously still upset with you.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE