So I tried dating a woman. At first things were okay but after that it went downhill.
It happened at least a lot of times were she would just ignore my messages. I did not get upset.
But when I ignored a message from her because I went to sleep saying good night to her, she really got upset.
The same happened a lot of times on different occasions. I made a mistake and it was the end of the World, she made the same mistake it was nothing.
What did I do wrong to end up with a girl like that? Should I have been meaner to her. Was she spoiled and immature?
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You didn't do anything wrong. You just realized you are with someone in denial who loves being the victim. Sometimes even the best people get their feelings hurt and become insecure, but this person is showing a real pattern of everything being about her and only her.
I think the way she acts towards you is incredibly rude and inconsiderate, and there's no reason for you to put up with that kind of behavior from anyone. Have you tried talking with her about it? I'm sure if you have, she got all defensive and denied she ever did anything mean to you.
In the future, do your best to pay attention to red flags early on in the relationship. People will often show negative signs of themselves, yet they go ignored by the other person because the infatuation of everything else going on makes it easy to shove the red flag under the bed. It's only later when those red flags come home to roost do you start asking yourself why you ignored signs she might not be for you.
Just pay attention to signs of behavior and never be afraid to communicate with someone when you feel you are being treated unfairly. You can always talk to someone in a nice way, and if that person actually cares about you and isn't all about herself, then she'll gladly do her best to consider your feelings.0
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