its been fours now and yet still i can't get past a breakup. it hurts just like yesterday. when will it end, i am depressed all the time. when do wounds heal? when does the pain stop? when will this go away?
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How long it will take will depend entirely up to you! First of all.. You have to allow yourself to go through those grieving stages! Anger, hurt, possibly jealously, bitterness, wanting revenge etc . Each of these are reall emotions and hurt deeply.
Give yourself that time to go through them. Then start shaking it off. Startdiumg things to improve yourself, physically , mentally etc . Get your hair done, nails, facials , start a new hobby , take a coarse at school or local colledge , get yourself out there and you will feel loads better because your self esteem is getting stronger.
Also this is super important , do not jump into another relationship too fast. Don't rebound.. Take the time to enjoy being your own best friend. You must learn to be happy with or without anyone , this is very important. Evaluate what went wrong in the relationship , it takes 2 so I am sure you can improve on some things. Do it for the health of your next relationship.
Trust me I have been there! There were times I didn't even want to get out of bed or go on. I let myself go.. I was miserable.. But you have choices.. Chose to move forward.
Best of luck