Ok I was dating a woman for about 8 months about a year ago. We broke up and about 2 months ago I contacted her. I never heard anything back till about 3 weeks ago. I told her I miss her but she informed me that she was dating someone and she was happy. I was a gentleman and wished them luck. Well this morning I got a text asking if I was busy. She needed to talk. She asked me if there was something that she did that pushed men away. From there we talked the rest of the day. My question is this we didn't break up over bad terms and she is far from a mean person. I know she is upset and she did say he broke up with her cause he wasn't sure if she felt he was the one for her. I guess would she even text if she didn't maybe want to try?
- Yes she does miss meVote A
- No she needs a friend onlyVote B
- She is testing the waters very slowlyVote C
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I feel that by her telling you 'She was happy' with this guy at that given moment, that if he had not dumped her when he supposedly did, that she probably would never have... Got a text asking if I was busy.
Don't wear your vulnerable heart on your sleeve right now. You are probably this Rebound at the moment she can use as a shoulder to cry on and lean on.
Go slow with the flow. If you both 'Didn't break up on bad terms,' then do something differently this time around, should you decide to try again.
Good luck. xx1