We were together for more than 3 years and he broke up with me because he needed space and pulled the "its not you its me" excuse. I've been giving him space and its been a week since we've talked.
He's big on logic and not so much on emotion. I want to get back together so badly, so how can I appeal to his logical side and do this? I'm not quite sure how to go about it. I want to be less emotional and more logical when I speak with him about getting back together. I want him to see how I've changed and have worked on myself.
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That's the problem, love is not logical it's emotional. You shouldn't change or try to be less logical, ever. You're doing the right thing by following your emotions, he is the one with the problem. And sadly he won't change no matter what you do. You can't make someone love you. My advice is to not contact him at all. And if/when he does, just be yourself and try to be polite and happy when talking to him. But don't ever ever push aside your emotions, not for anyone! I know 3 years is a long time and you can't believe how it came to this after that much time. And you're probably wondering if it was ever a love. Hate to break it to you but it wasn't. 3 years is more then enough to realize if you love someone or not, and he doesn't. For him, it was probably just a huge lust and entertainment. And he's right that it's not you it's him, even tho he probably doesn't think like that he just said it not to hurt you, but he's not aware that really IS him. Someone will love you one day with all their heart and then you will be glad you never turned your back or questioned your emotions.1