I dated her for 6 months. At first I wasn't into her (appearance) as much as she is to me. I was very shallow before so I overlooked that. We vibe and start to make it exclusive. I sleep over her house 4-5 times week. I like to joke, tease and annoy her whenever. She gets mad and I always don't know what i did or I say. I notice that she is very emotional person and stress about everything. I am a stress free guy, I am compfortable with my life. So whenever I'm am mad or piss at something I don't tell her cos even if it's a small thing she makes it big, just stay quiet and remove myself around so we want fight/argue and I might as say stuff I don't mean. she also ask me if I wanted to move out by the end of the year, I yes it would be nice. She stress about money cos she on work casual as a nurse. She also said she'll be making more money then me and I was lol wtf so. Fast forward few days ago, we're working out and she said did I save up and I said "kinda" her mood change and I made an effort to make her smile just to light things up, she snap and went home. I don't call, text her and she didn't also. Next day she said it's over cos we are incompatible and I stress her out that I made her gained weight. She also said I should get a better career and better myself (I have full-time job). She mention to me that she was diagnosed with depression few years back and get anxiety attack.
I try to talk to her and she won't answer to anything.
she said it's over. She said I don't support/bring the best of her meanwhile I drive her to work pick her up, pickups her little brother. her last words was "you should be happy for yourself and by yourself". Like wtf
I'm really confuse seems like I did everything and I'm the one is not good enough. I lower my standard and I am not good enough.😢😢😢😢
My ego is bruise.
I know I can do better and I know what I am worth.
making me depress and not the normal "me"
I don't know what to do now?
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Sounds like we've got a girl who convinced herself you were her dream guy cause of the way you look. She found out that if she stayed with you she'd probably have to be the one making most of the money cause it's not that big of a deal to you. She wants the good looking dude but not at the expense of living "poor" so she left. She says things like incompatible so she can avoid hurting your feelings. But really she's just hoping she can go out in the world and find a guy who's just as hot but with more money. She's probably gonna be disappointed though. You'll get over it all with time.1