Most Helpful Guy
Well if u don't love him then you can never make him truly happy, because to make someone feel special u have to feel that they are special in the first place. Secondly marriage is a partner and when both the partners don't feel the same way, the product will always be a disaster
Lastly people shouldn't be concern, they will think whatever they want and u can't stop them but what matters is what u think and that's all that matters
I don't know why u married that man in the first place and who the other guy is but u seriously need to talk it out someone, getting a divorce is not easy but if you truly feel that you can't learn to love the man who is your husband then ending it is the right call
Most Helpful Girl
Why did you marry him to begin with? Was it an arranged marriage? Those can be tricky, sometimes you don't love who was chosen for you. If you see no happiness in your future with your husband, you will more than likely (but not definitely) grow resentful and bitter. You may even resort to cheating on him. If he is a nice guy, that will probably hurt him a lot. I guess you can discuss this with him, and explain to him that you are not in love with him and are unhappy.