Every time I threaten to leave, he breaks down and cries. He blames it on being abused by his dad and cheated on by his shitty ex girlfriend, but then he turns around and refuses to get help because "some stranger can't tell him what's wrong." I am so beaten down... I don't know if I have the strength to continue on with him if things don't change. How do I remedy this situation? And if leaving is the only choice... how can I do so safely?
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Cutting up your panties and burning your photo album may be enough for you to get an order of protection to get him out of the apt. You need to get him on paper because he is going to kill you or try then blame it on you.
You were not very smart to move in with a guy who had a hint of a bad temper. An order means he cannot talk to you. Once issued, run as far as you can. Time everything. If he is going to go to jail or be mad plan it for a Friday night that way he will spend the weekend in jail.