I used to meet up with this guy and we had a great first date that we decided to have the second date soon. But this guy has been dragging on the next date out of a sudden saying that he got dinners coming up that he will let me know soon. I got so pissed offf that I sent him a long message explaining how pissed off I am with his behaviour and I even defriended him knowing that this will be the last message ever I will sent it to him. I knew I had to do it or else he won't even bother contacting me. I feel so hurt about how he was not initiating another date to meet me. I feel pretty shit but I know its over. Has anyone done that? What should I do to make myself better, to get over this asshole?
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I have done This with my own husband who I still am married to out in Egypt. We are up and down like two yo yos and dill doughs, and many times over, I have found myself doing the same thing and... Feeling much better after I have done this.
I am sure you Feel Better now that you have told him a thing or two. However, in the future, bear in mind, that if a First date goes well, no telling if a Second one will be initiated or even if there might be a third, which to me... Three strikes and he's out on Second base.
Don't wear your heart on your sleeve, is the best advice I can give you. When just meeting someone, meeting up, one would think that a First date will tell whether or not there will be a second. Many times, there is a change of mind and in heart and one or both may have realized there was no chemistry after all. It's best to just leave well enough alone and move on, leaving this in God's hands and in Mother Nature's.
Good luck, feel better soon. xx1
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