We broke up in 2011. We were in love I think, we were incompatible however we remained together. He had more downs than ups. He used to get jealous a lot, we fought a lot. But he always expresses how much he loved me. I haven't been on FB at all when I do I just look up funny viral videos n I repost them sometimes. Recently I started using it, posting, new car, I've been doing good with life, I always tagged my best friend whom he hated n felt threatened by. I went on today n saw that he had deleted me. He has a wife and a child, my question is why waited all that time why now why didn't say anything. If he was over me he shouldn't have cared enough to delete me? I need opinions n possible answers guys. Help and thank you
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If you were the one to break up with him, then he has every right to follow your lead and excuse you from every aspect of his life. People who have been dumped tend to find liberation and peace in completely removing the dumper from their hearts, minds, and view in every way. The act of being left can cause a lot of heartache and distress so leaving that person in hindsight and committing to that choice by not including or inviting them into your life with social media can feel like overcoming an obstacle.
If not, then seeing as he now has a wife with children, he probably just sees no reason to keep you invited and included into his world at all. He has chosen to build his life around another woman; there's really no need to have you around mentally at all anymore.3