I have been with my boyfriend for five months. Our relationship seemed great. Whenever we do have arguments though they are small easily fixed. But a couple of days ago I said something that apparently he did not like. I thought it over and apologized for saying it amd I thought we were good. But yesterday when we hung out he was acting rude and he made at least three breakup references. I confronted him about it and he said that he was just kidding but it felt like he was trying to provoke me. So I am really confused on whats going on. Because he never acted this way before. Friday (its Wednesday now) he told me that he can see a future with me and then Monday he started acting weird. Then yesterday he invited me to his sisters birthday party to meet his grandparents. I feel like I am on an emotional rollercoaster ride. I dont know if he is punishing me, stressed out, or trying to breal up with me. Please give me your opinion!
Most Helpful Guy
I think your over reacting, don't over think this just relax and be nice to him. I would like to know what you said because it would give me a better understanding as to why he would mention breaking up...0
Most Helpful Girl
He was just trying to get back at you. He was mad & tried to hurt as much as you hurt him I guess. Or tried to hurt you more. Yes this is a very childish thing to do but he just wanted revenge. He wanted you to feel what he felt in a way. If this makes sense. He really doesn't want to break up. He was just mad & saying things he didn't mean & being unthoughtful about it. You should ask for an apology.0