Should I Take My Ex-Girl Friend Back?
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well...you can ask yourself the following questions:
1. can she give you what you want?
2. is the stress, of never knowing what she will decide next, bareable? (walking on eggshells...does she want me, or not?)
3. what do YOU want?
4. why should you take her back? what is she REALLY to you?
5. if you take her back and she does the same thing again, how would you handle it? what consequences would you pull out of it?
I was in a similar situation and took my girlfriend back. she had these "phases" every 3 months or so. after she dumped me the second time, she wanted me back. I asked myself these questions and took her back. 2 weeks ago I broke it off with her, since she didn't change. taking her back wasn't a bad idea, since I now know, that she's not the right thing for me or at least not now.
so yeah...if you see potential and can accept what comes out, then I'd try it one last time for the next couple of years. just be true to yourself and don't be the little doggy with which she can toy around with.
hope this helps
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